Years ago, I was part of a university committee that
monitored student progress. Two of the
deans were sitting near me at one meeting, talking about two upperclassmen that
violated the law in some way and were being held in the county jail. Dean Victor visited the young men in the pokey, and sharing his experience with Dean Joe.
Dean Victor: I felt
so sorry for them! The conditions there
were terrible—no privacy, tough people, overcrowding….
Dean Joe (looking incredulous): That’s why they call it JAIL, Vic! It’s not supposed to be easy.
I think about that whenever I or someone else expresses surprise and/or dismay when a challenging situation arises. That's why they call it a challenge, Vic!!
On Sunday, I presented the weekly challenge to my Young Women. I told them that they had the power to change the world. They received handouts with the cute picture of the globes with the, "She believed she could, so she did" motto. The story of Nephi's response to the challenge to build a boat was recounted. Laman and Lemuel's negative reaction was mentioned. I told them that I once was told by someone that I would never get into medical school, but look how that prediction turned out. They can change the world and don't ever let anyone tell you that you can't.
My challenge to them was to think of a way they could change their world this week. Maybe it's just the beginning of a big goal, or a little thing they want to work on just for the week. I also asked for some help with my goal, which is to go and visit the less-active girls. There were some excited faces, and even some tears from my most sensitive YW. She left the room, and when I found her, she said, "I have a lot of things to think about". I think that's great!! Challenges should make you think. They should make you cry sometimes, or get angry. If it was easy and all, "La la la. Skippity-doo-dah," then it wouldn't be a challenge, now would it?
It's too bad my teary Laurel didn't stay for class, because one of my amazing counselors gave the lesson, "Personal Purity Through Self-Discipline". It dovetailed perfectly with the challenge theme. And one of our girls had a terrific "AHA!" moment about how being disciplined actually gives you more freedom in life. It makes me teary to remember that moment. Oh how I love my girls and my leaders!
What are you challenging yourself to do this week? If you are a leader, are you issuing any challenges?
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My challenge to them was to think of a way they could change their world this week. Maybe it's just the beginning of a big goal, or a little thing they want to work on just for the week. I also asked for some help with my goal, which is to go and visit the less-active girls. There were some excited faces, and even some tears from my most sensitive YW. She left the room, and when I found her, she said, "I have a lot of things to think about". I think that's great!! Challenges should make you think. They should make you cry sometimes, or get angry. If it was easy and all, "La la la. Skippity-doo-dah," then it wouldn't be a challenge, now would it?
It's too bad my teary Laurel didn't stay for class, because one of my amazing counselors gave the lesson, "Personal Purity Through Self-Discipline". It dovetailed perfectly with the challenge theme. And one of our girls had a terrific "AHA!" moment about how being disciplined actually gives you more freedom in life. It makes me teary to remember that moment. Oh how I love my girls and my leaders!
What are you challenging yourself to do this week? If you are a leader, are you issuing any challenges?
I love that people are reading the blog. Please feel free to comment. It makes for a better dialogue and interesting new posts.
